My ex-girlfriend’s mother told me I smell like fresh tilapia - Person with albinism
A social worker living with albinism, Kwame Andrews Daklo, says finding a love partner is a tough challenge for people with his condition.
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Kwame who spoke to GhanaWeb, shared a bitter experience when he tried to date a woman who did not live with albinism.
According to him, his first girlfriend was teased out of their relationship. “My first girlfriend did not have my condition. A lot of people mocked her for dating an ‘ofri’ and she eventually left the relationship.”
Although his first relationship was short-lived, he didn’t give and tried again but that one was not any better because he consistently received heartbreaking comments from his girlfriend’s family.
“My girlfriend’s mother told me that I smelled like fresh tilapia so she did not want me close to their family. Her mum also said she could not even eat when I am around because my presence made her nauseous.”
Kwame also indicated a hard deal of stigma that he has to endure as he goes about his daily life.
As the world battles COVID-19, people have tagged me as a carrier of the virus because of my colour, he told GhanaWeb.
“I was out one last night and when a certain guy saw me, he started shouting, ‘coronavirus man! Coronavirus man!’ but I did not even bother to mind him because I was in a hurry, so I just walked away.”
“This is a popular experience I keep encountering since the coronavirus pandemic hit all aspects of the world. I don’t even know where people get that perception from,” he said.
He, therefore, urged the general public to dispel false notions and rather help them fight for a life that is free of stigma.
