OH! OH!! What at all have we done to our fathers (co-equals) to merit/face this wrath from them? Who is to blame?
Do we blame our girls? OR Do we blame the big men?
To some extent l would blame our women
What at all do they want that we are not offering?
Moneywise we are doi ng our best
Sexwise we are sincerely doing our best
Caring wise (if there is a word like that) we are performing. What at all do they want again?
Fine l would say the big men do have the L’argent (money) to waste but they should invest in profitable ventures for their children rather than investing in our women. How can the big man take the young aspiring to be woman to a shopping arcade and spend money to the tune of GH¢1200 only on shoes and bags whilst it would take at least three months before l could gladly and wholeheartedly give my woman GH¢50 for Obroniwewu (foes) selection .Really that should not give the chance to the big man to steal our women from us. For all they know someday there would be revenge, l mean pay-back time on their daughters. But this should not continue for life. Why should the big man lavish so much money on their daughters whom they would not marry? Are we really worth second-Hand users? Lately people really go to the extent of performing “SAKAWA”/blood money all in the search of providing a better living and life for their women. At least one solution to this “SAKAWA”/blood money is our big men. They should stop investing big monies in our women, if this is stopped our women would be content with the little that we offer them and become self-sufficient.
Sexwise and caring wise l really don’t think this big men can match us, the way we go about these two it’s so fantastic and enviable. Now we come back to the big question, what do our women really want? Perhaps l would plead with our big men to leave our women alone. Surprisingly at times we see and know everything but we can complain or comment. Ask me why? Who are you to complain? I think probably a seminar should be organized to educate the big men on this issue. I had an experience with a friend, where the girlfriend actually rang this big man after suspecting her, this big man sent a task force of police men to justify the situation by subjecting my friend to heavy beating. Ladies have you ever pondered over t his question
Will this old man marry me? Why do our guys also flirt?
Only one obvious answer the BIG MAN
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