Ironically, some women want to be second in command. Given the frequency with which women foul when cheated on, and the way society condemns cheating on men, one would expect women to value exclusivity over compromise, but this is not the case.
For some reason, even if you know the real babe, some babes have no qualms about being a bridesmaid and are happy to be your second choice.
According to the woman, here are her five reasons for this:
1. Convenience
According to Bloom, a millennial who just graduated from NYSC, women agree on supporting roles.
Not much is expected of you. Your "boyfriend" will spend most of his time with your main chick, automatically taking some of the "stress" out of you.
2. Be careful
"This is a sensitive issue," Chinaza said.
If a man treats a girl right and somehow meets all her emotional and other needs, she will be annoyed to have other people, especially if she has had bad, toxic relationships in the past. I don't think so, she says.
3. money
For some women, financial gain is important. If you are a man who can afford it, you can be a partner. The bill has been paid so far, with no issues.
4. Sex
According to Humans Mag relationship columnist Ashley Moore, "Now his one bonus is sexual pleasure. Let's be honest, men don't offer chicks anything unless some kind of intercourse is involved." ”
And when men somehow only offer bomb sex, it's easy for women to agree to be the second choice.
5. It's too late to quit
Sometimes women are duped into these relationships before they realize there is someone else.
But at that point, they've gone too far, and going back and being left alone is no longer the preferred option.
So they continue to keep her promise, and soon the guy gets bored with the main chick and dumps her. Sadly, this rarely happens.