Though we are responsible for the choice of a partner,we are not responsible for the kind of character they may have. It is really exhausting to find yourself repeatedly doubting whatever your partner may tell you as a result of some previous things they may have lied on. You are absolutely not wrong to have the gut feeling that your partner may possibly be a chronic liar but you need more than your gut feeling to justify the warnings. You will need signs that give them out.In this article, you'll find the signs to look out for in a lying partner.
Their body language
Does your partner look nonchalant when you are trying to get them to answer something? One way to spot a lyin partner is their body language. They avoid eye contact with you or do too much eye contact. They turn to do a lot of touching their face due to being nervous.
They get angry easily
This is one of the funniest things about people who lie. They get angry easily because you have been able to know they could possibly be telling lies. If your partner starts to yell at you,cuss or throw tantrums or even have an angry facial expression,it means they are lying about what you are asking them. Take note!
They are way too careful to answer your questions
Truth is, every honest person doesn't waste time when they're asked questions because they know they have nothing to hide. I am a very honest person who doesn't even think about the consequences of saying the truth,I just spit it out like nobody's business. But if your partner waits minutes to answer something you have asked them,they are obviously trying to make up something to lie to you about.
Observe how many times they pause to say something
Pay attention to their pauses. They may be thinking about what to say, how to flow with the lies because obviously they don't want you to notice they may be lying. Observe speech errors like "uhh", "I mean" and "aah" because they also count.
They try to change the topic or start a fight out of nothing
It is obviously what a liar does best. It is either they change the topic or get angry and start a fight. If your partner tries to avoid a question you may have asked, it is a sign that they are hiding something and don't want to talk about it. Sometimes too, they may be in the middle of answering your questions but then get angry out of nowhere and start a fight or the silent treatment.
There should be no justification for lies in a relationship in any form or kind. If you feel your partner is constantly making a fool out of you by lying to you as if you were a kid then it's time to reconsider things. No healthy relationship is built on lies and deceit.