If your husband leaves you, arrange a funeral and place an obituary everywhere. - Famous chef Abeni
Abeni, a famous Nigerian chef, has given advice to women whose husbands suddenly decide to leave home.
Remember when @Polo kimani, a Twitter user, asked married men if they had ever considered leaving their families and disappearing into thin air? Many of them admitted that they had not only thought about it, but had actually done it.
While some online users were astonished to learn this information, one user, Anna, commented that it wasn't shocking because she had seen it happen before, but the man had returned.
She wrote;
“Men upping and leaving isn’t new at all. My aunt’s husband left and casually came back after 8 years lmao.”
Reacting to this, Abeni advised women to hold funerals and announce that the husband was dead so he would not be able to come back whenever he changed his mind.
She wrote;
“Came back to where? This is why I say you must hold a funeral, so when he comes back everybody in the area will scream ‘akudaya’
He won’t even reach the front of your door. By the time people are screaming in horror and pointing at him shouting ‘oku’ ‘akudaya’, he will go back to where he’s coming from
Do funeral, post obituary everywhere.
Ani ri esu o.”