Pastor Julie claimed that playing the fool in a marriage is a key to its success, drawing on her own 39-year-long marriage as an example. However, Betty Irabor disagrees with this idea and believes that playing the fool for that long is detrimental to one's mental, emotional, and physical health.
Even though she has also been married for 39 years, Betty Irabor believes that maintaining peace in a relationship should not come at the cost of one's well-being. She respects Pastor Julie's opinion but does not agree with her approach.
It is essential to find a balance between keeping the peace and standing up for oneself in a healthy relationship.
She wrote;
“Eeeya. I have been married 39 years too… Playing a fool for that long to maintain peace in the name of submissiveness or respect for your spouse is unhealthy; mentally, emotionally and physically. Gosh! But if the formula is working for her marriage I salute her.”
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