Love does not always come in the form of words.
Often, love can be expressed through actions to your significant other. As the saying goes, actions speak louder than words.
Showing someone you love them holds more weight than a simple one-liner of those three magical words.
You may wonder, “How come?” When you physically do something for someone, it takes more of you to accomplish the notion than rambling off “I love you”.
Engaging in specific acts of love last much longer forming greater memories.
Memories are what you typically keep close to your heart the longest when it comes to thinking about acts of love. You usually remember how someone makes you feel versus what they actually say.
Here are 5 deeper ways to show someone you love them
1. Write secret messages.
Your significant other has a work trip coming up. They start packing their luggage and you immediately begin to think about how much you’re going to miss them for the next few days. While they are traveling, you want to let them know they are still on your mind. You decide to write them a little message to slip between their clothes.
Upon arrival to their hotel, they begin to unpack a few items and find your love note. This will not only make them smile, but they will feel your love and devotion as look forward to returning home to you.
2. Cook a feast.
While you may not be Jamie Oliver in the kitchen, it doesn’t mean you can’t whip up their favorite meal. Yes, it may take a few attempts to perfect, but in the end, it’s the thought that counts.
Even if you overcook the lasagna, your S.O. will sure to appreciate a homemade meal crafted with love after a long stressful day at work.
3. Give them a massage.
Baby’s got back…a bad back that is. Your S.O. is physically grinding at work all day, and they would love nothing more than a good rub down. It’s time to break out the scented oils and give them a full body massage in the comfort of your home.
A deep tissue massage will relieve their aches and pains but also can induce sexual energy between the two of you. You never know where the night may go.
4. Actively listen and validate.
Lending your ear may not seem like much at times, but it can mean the world to your partner on the other end. Life can be a rollercoaster ride of ups and downs. Therefore, having the chance to get things off your chest with someone who understands can be a great release of tension.
You can validate your S.O. by simply giving head nods, asking additional questions about their distress, and letting them know you care through your responses. A warm response would be, “I’m sorry to hear you are having a stressful day. Is there anything I can do to help?”
5. Treat them right.
When your S.O. is having a rough week, sometimes it’s sweet to remind them how hard they are working. Showing them they deserve a Kit Kat break with a sugary treat that will just melt in their mouth, helps them forget the sour taste they had after a long week.
Their feel-good brain chemicals, dopamine and serotonin, boost their mood making them feel utterly delicious and deserving by you.